Built Server and Network infrastructure for multiple Fortune 1000 companies. Expert in backups, Disaster Recovery, enterprise security, Cloud and more. Handled 40+ ransomware remediation cases. Day job has me currently manage an Enterprise over 50,000 users with 2.5 Petabytes of storage, 10,000 cameras, massive wireless infrastructure, on-prem and cloud servers, and daily cybersecurity attacks.
I would buy the .com and the .net. and have one redirect to the other. I would use the .com as my primary address, and then have .net redirect to it. Then you own both, and don't have the risk of someone buying the other domain and doing something malicious.